Sunday, October 14, 2007

Ogling - Beyond The Roving Eyes

Ogling! this one word is enough to create a controversy...such a powerful word! *sigh*
Even 10-15 years ago ogling was treated as ONLY MAN-thing..... but ,after all we are now live in 21st century and things seems to be changed quickly.Recent Kinsey report (USA) revealed that ,women also do ogle,in fact MORE than men!! Ohh my god ,our fairer sex now ready to give us challenge in every aspects...even at the department that ,even a decade ago,was considered for Men ONLY!! ;-)
Jokes apart, actually this is NOT A BIG DEAL at all,this report,however don't surprise me at all.
Come on! women do get attracted towards opposite sex & that's pretty natural....
But, I'm not totally agree with this report, firstly 'cos these are based on reaction of WESTERN women n that's too in the cities like NY etc.But yes ,no doubt women,specially gals & younger ladies continuously ogle...sometimes shamelessly,like men do.

Still, is there no difference between a female-ogling with their male counter-part?
Answer is YES! besides normal attraction , i.e. while they stare at handsome,tall guys,they also prefer those guys who don't ogle frequently,may be just stare-back with a smile and VERY IMPORTANTLY can look at their eyes,directly.

I feel, gals hate those guys,irrespective of handsome or not,those can't look at their eyes, rather stare at their assets!That's a complete turn-off for them.
And, there lies the BASIC DIFFERENCE between the male-ogling with female one. Men's ogling is more a lustful act(and sometimes they moved all most in a trance and forget where they are :o) ).But more disgustingly,some men even don't bother about quality.... they just ogle first and then try to figure-out at whom they do it! :-/
On the contrary, women are more choosy in this matter.First they select a few from a group-of-guys and then start their smart-game.In short,between the two genders,women are more coy fish in this act.Sometimes,they get more wild(than one can think of) and even do it in the very presence of their boy-friends(saying from my personal experiences & no,I was NOT the poor boy-friend! haha!!).

Now some facts....
This is not a joke. It came from the New England Journal of Medicine:
Great news for girl watchers: Ogling over women's boobs is good for a man's health and can add years to his life, medical experts have discovered. According to the New England Journal of Medicine, "Just 10 minutes of staring at the charms of a well-endowed female is roughly equivalent to a 30-minute aerobics work-out" declared gerontologist Dr. Karen Weatherby.

Weird research,huh!
But, must have to admit that, when women ogle, guys do get a high..... and more importantly a big relief from their own staring-duty! ;-)